John Valadez on September 23rd, 2009

I was speaking with some friends the other day about our countries current hardships. The topic of passion came up, in regards to what we do for a living, and I was taken back regarding the groups point of view. A majority of them agreed that it was nearly impossible to show passion in a [...]

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John Valadez on September 15th, 2009

John Lennon said it best, “Life is what happens to you while you are busy making other plans.”
What a wise person. I didn’t know how my six-year old was going to fair in her third new school in three years; but she didn’t disappoint my ex-wife or me. She jumped out of the car and [...]

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John Valadez on September 11th, 2009

I believe strongly in the majority of happy people in this world know or either have a strong idea of what their life’s purpose is and how to fulfill it. This is by no means an easy task. To know without a shred of doubt why you are here on this earth is not something [...]

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John Valadez on September 7th, 2009

It’s that time of year again. We are starting a new tradition for the girls this year – we’re going camping. That’s right, we’re starting a new tradition before school starts and we’ll spend some time in the wilderness appreciating nature before starting a new year hitting the books; both for the girls and Dad, [...]

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John Valadez on September 3rd, 2009

I’m taking a course in Logic for a Philosophy degree I’m working on. Prior to my class, I never heard of Logic other than from Star Trek. Judging by the size of the class and the same general response when they were asked the question, “Have you ever heard of logic?” I’m judging much other [...]

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John Valadez on June 9th, 2009

I get so wrapped up in my day to day activities I find myself missing things. I’m repeating myself less and less to my five year old. Maybe, it’s because my little girl is turning six on Saturday? My baby has seen a lot in six years, more so, than to my liking. It’s been [...]

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John Valadez on June 5th, 2009

My girls love Lunchables. Kraft foods has carved out a niche that all of us single parents wanted and needed, for our elementary school children anyway, a quick lunch kit. My girls do not like all of the Lunchables like the pizza ones. I tried them and they are not the same as “real” cold [...]

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John Valadez on May 25th, 2009

Yesterday I was constantly reminding my three year old to put on her flip-flops as she dashed by me on the deck. My kids were in and out of the pool all day – having fun. I kept telling her, “You’re going to get a splinter.”
This morning, my manifestation was realized. I was not [...]

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John Valadez on April 28th, 2009

Being a single parent my internal dialogue has always directed me in both good and bad directions. There is a quote, I just love, from a seminar I attended given by Mike Lipkin, he said “Feed the right lion”. The meaning goes something like there are two lions in our mind and one is fear, [...]

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My children’s great grandmother passed away yesterday. Regrettably, they were not close to her. She lived half way across the country and our visits were limited to a few when they were babies. My initial reaction was how should I tell them? After additional reflection I changed my mind to not telling them. Conflicted, I [...]

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